As we move from having gratitude we begin to think about giving. This year, as you prepare for the holiday season, what gift will you give? At church yesterday, Beaudry and Braunson read a story about a family who gave away their Christmas to help another family. They both were very touched by the story and were honest when they added, “I’m not sure I could do that.” Me neither. I think it would be really hard to focus all our time, efforts, and gifts to others. I think a lot of us enjoy the season because it is nice to receive (more on this in another post).
I ask you not to give away all that you have or all that you plan to have under the tree. what I’m asking is for you to begin to think about a gift you can give your spouse that is different. Here are some examples:
One issue that couples face each December is a loss of time devoted to their relationship. Even if they are at holiday gatherings together, rarely do they have the quality time that is needed to nurture the relationship so it is strong when Valentine’s arrives. Think about giving the gift of time this season.
Hopefully you all know about the 5 Love Languages (if not google it and you’ll find it fast). Gary Chapman believes we each have a primary way we feel loved and we all favor one of five love languages: Gifts, Service, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Physical Touch. A great gift this year would be to love your spouse (and kids) in a language they understand.
How about a simple gift that you know your spouse would love: mine starts each wish list with a massage.
Finally, think about a gift that will keep on giving. Find ways to be thoughtful, thankful, and playful in your gift giving.

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time that begins a month long celebration. It is a time of gratitude, appreciation, and honoring those you love. It is a time to renew old traditions, create new ones, and enjoy a change of pace. Here are a few of the things I am most thankful for:

I’m most thankful for my family. I have been blessed with an amazing wife and 5 great kids. I appreciate most the times we spend together, whether on a short day ‘adventure’ or an extended summer trip. The above pictures are from Red Fish, ID and Coeur d’Alene, ID. I’m grateful for the great place we live and the chance we have to get out and enjoy life. I feel blessed to have family and friends who we can visit and who add quality to our world. Happy Thanksgiving!

Wow, its already November. Halloween was so much fun and crazy too! This month is always a fun one for us as we think about how our lives and family changed as we brought Braunson and Beaudry into our family. It is crazy to think that is was 10 years ago that we experienced the scares, cheers, and changes of having twins. For most people, November is a month of gratitude where we give just a little more thought about what blessings we have. For some it is children, while others it is health or even employment. This month should be a time where we reflect on what makes our life great. I hope in this reflection we take moments to honor and appreciate our relationships. Our spouse is one of the greatest parts of our lives and is a huge blessing on so many levels. As you give thanks throughout the month, share your gratitude with your spouse.